Are you meditating and still have a short fuse?

Do you have a meditation practice and find yourself coming out of your meditation, still being your old self?

And that it hasn't become a way of life?

And when it comes to your parenting and relationships, do you feel as though you're watching an accident happen in slow motion?

Are you worried that your reactions are going to create emotional baggage for your children?

It's as though you can see all the stuff you inherited is being passed through to your children - and even though you're aware of all of this, you don't have the tools to do anything about it.

It's time you do something about it. It doesn't get easier, nor will this fix itself.

At the root of the problem is this.

You believe you love your children unconditionally - and your love is conditional.
And it is conditional because you love yourself conditionally. 

The high expectations you have for yourself and your life, the vision you have as a parent and who you want to be and the family you want to create is powerful, yet you are consistently beating yourself up every day for not meeting it. 

High expectations motivated from a place of Love are different from High expectations motivated by Fear.

Your motivations and vision are born from a place of Fear - and that's why you struggle with giving yourself grace, and you struggle with being impatient and allowing your children to be themselves.

What to do?

1. Get clear on your patterns - keep what works and change what doesn't. If you and I get on a call within a few minutes, I can share with you the patterns that are holding you back

2. Heal your Inner Child and Reparent. You can't do one without the other. Where most people get stuck is they do one without the other and that's why it goes in circles. 

3. Get accountability and find community. We heal in community. If you want to get their fast, go alone and if you want to go further, go together. 

Here's a free training that shows you how to stop the accident from happening and create the Vision of the family you know to be true for you.

Sending love,
Yummii xx

PS Want to know what's possible with my Mastermind on Healing Generational Patterns?

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What would it be worth to you to say and know in your Heart, "I truly and completely LOVE who I am - and I'm so proud of who I am as a mother or father?"