Do you believe in compromise?

And what does it cost you?

“If we’ve been living a very compromised life, we may feel that we’re trapped. But we’re never trapped. If we begin right now to make small decisions and actions that don’t compromise our sense of inner integrity, then even one uncompromising act a day will make a difference. The more we learn not to compromise, the more we’ll begin to believe in ourselves again.

To live a life of genius, we have to start believing in ourselves again.

We have to get in touch with our hearts and our dreams.

We may also feel we’re trapped if we’ve been living a very compromised life. But we’re never trapped."

The above is an excerpt from the Gene Keys, by Richard Rudd. 

Earlier today, I ran a Masterclass on "Healing Generational Wealth" and one thing I really want to share with you all is this (if you want the replay, reply to this email!);

IT is impossible to create true wealth when you live from a place of compromise. 

True Wealth - is abundance in all areas. 

There is a difference between having a lot of money in the bank and feeling unfulfilled - and having a lot of money in the bank and feeling fulfilled.

It is no different in any other area of life.

There is a difference between being married, having kids and feeling lonely/ empty/ disconnected - and being married, having kids and feeling connected, grateful, and extremely loved up. 

Here is what creates the difference. One trajectory is based on compromise. A lot of it.
The other, truth. Alignment. Love of thyself. 

It all comes down to the place in which we live from. Compromise is the manifestation of Fear. 

An abundant life is a wealthy life. And wealth, true wealth is the abundance of knowing that all my needs are met and more, I'm divinely guided, and I'm worthy of receiving and giving the Highest Love. 

What does this have to do with Healing Generational Patterns and parenting? A lot.

If you're stressed about money, if you're worried about money, if you're always thinking it's hard to make ends meet - or that no matter how much comes in it's never enough - what is the impact of that relationship to money on your parenting and in your relationships?

The cost is presence. The cost is connection. The cost is being able to be at ease and relax and making choices that are healthy and thriving for your family. 

And even if your business or your job creates a really healthy bank account - however, if you're compromising your physical health, your emotional wellbeing, your mental wellbeing, and your Spiritual connection - the experience of that money is charged and it will occur as "never enough" - and you will be in scarcity.

Here's what I'm clear about - everything is interconnected.

When you're stressed - your capacity to "be" and "slow down" and "take the time" to guide your children when they are challenged is reduced. It's really hard. It's probably unfair on you to demand that of yourself when you have NOTHING to give.

In the masterclass I shared, I don't believe in "compromise". It just isn't in my reality. I could sense it was really uncomfortable for some.

It's truth. John and I don't compromise in our relationship. We truly don't believe it in. We have a belief that it's always possible to create "win-win" and we don't settle for any choice unless it's "win-win".

I can see why people do it - and it really won't lead to the life they truly want.

Compromise is a symptom of the disconnection of self. The desires of your true self would never hurt anyone else or require anyone else to compromise themselves.

The desire from your Highest Self expands all - and when spoken from a place of power, when acted upon via Divine Will - there is abundance for all and it doesn't take from anyone.

Compromise eats away at you - little by little... and it costs you trusting yourself. 

Trusting that you are worthy of Love, Abundance, and the highest of Joy.

Everyone says they want the Highest highs of Love.

And it will cost you your relationship to compromise. 

Compromise is common - and not a place that your Highest Self will tell you to live from.

Compromise is a generational behaviour that we have passed on because we believe "we aren't worthy" and that "there isn't enough". It is a symptom of lack, scarcity, and unworthiness.

My invitation to you today.

Think deeply about where you compromise, what you're compromising on - and whether this is actually loving to you.

Because if it isn't loving to you - it's time that you stop hurting yourself by compromising. 

Sending love,

Yummii xx

PS If you want the replay, reply to this email and I'll arrange for you to receive it.