How to thrive during a crisis

Wherever you are, I hope you are safe. I hope your family is safe. 

The Motherhood Mindset was borne on the premise that Motherhood is an opportunity for healing, Transformation, and for us to return to our wholeness. 

That we use Motherhood as a mirror - to seek out our wounds, to seek out the shadows within ourselves, and to seek all the parts of us that "we" deem unworthy, unlovable, and not enough.

Where we are triggered, where we are challenged, where we are experiencing guilt/ shame and anything but bliss - that's something to be looked at. It's a demonstration of where we are living from Fear. 

When we return to our wholeness, when we choose to heal, choose to break free from limiting beliefs - we are empowered. We thrive.

I believe all the Fears that live within us rise to the surface when we go through the initiation of Motherhood for the one purpose, to invite us to meet it with Love - and to master the art of choosing to live from Love. 

The biggest challenges that mothers face when they first enter into Motherhood are the experiences of loneliness, uncertainty, judgement, not-knowing, lack of control, lack of freedom, questioning our own identity. Within these wounds are opportunities for healing.

As I observe what's going on in the world right now - it is as though EVERYONE is going through their own initiation of Motherhood.

The uncertainty. The judgement. The lack of not knowing. The lack of being in control and questioning our identity and freedom. 

It is such a great time in history where we are all experiencing the same circumstance and witnessing 7 billion interpretations. We can see the spectrum between the deepest of Fears to the highest of Love.

And this my beautiful fellow soul is the gift of Transformation. 

Transformation is to acknowledge the Fear, feel the Fear, heal the Fear, and grow our inner strength with learning to choose to stand in Love. 

It is knowing that Fear can be a teacher that moves us towards Love.

"Wholeness" lives in the experience of Love.

If "wholeness" is the state in which we can feel empowered and thrive - therefore, I'm inviting you into this possible potential.

To master the understanding of what it takes to thrive during this crisis - and to believe that it is possible for you. That you, have everything it takes to "thrive" through the crisis.

The meaning of crisis; "a time when a difficult or important decision must be made."

So decide, who are you going to be, and how are you going to grow through this opportunity of Transformation? - Decide whether you are choosing to thrive or choosing to survive.

Are you going to be the same human being once this is all over? OR are you going to actively commit to master your mind each day, and decide to choose Love over being seduced by the Fear?

What "wisdom" have you learnt from Motherhood that you can bring to this unique time in history? How can you "navigate" the uncertainty from a place of trust, faith, taking it a day at a time, and choosing where you are investing your energy?

In my signature course, The Motherhood Mindset, there is a module on "mantras" where we go through powerful "mantras" or "questions" we can ask ourselves during the toughest moments (I call these moments, "Breaking point").

In one of the lessons in the module, I invite participants to view any challenges from this enquiry; "What is this moment teaching me? - How can I see this through the lens of Love?". 

If there was ever a time where we can use a crisis to inspire our growth and to take charge of our mindset and perceive through the lens of Love, it is now.

What you have working for you beautiful soul - is that you are a parent.

You know what it's like to deal with uncertainty and the feeling of internal chaos (and what an opportunity that chaos is!).

You have everything you need within you to choose to navigate this time from a place of being empowered and choosing to thrive.

99% of our challenges in Motherhood all live in the mind. Master your mind; you master your reality.

99% of our challenges right now, also all live in the mind. Master your mind, master your reality.

I honour you, I love you, and I am looking forward to thriving with you through mastering choosing Love.