You're burnt out... and exhausted..

Motherhood, honestly, has never been more challenging.

We don't have a village, and we all know just enough to constantly critique our own mothering and then beat the crap out of ourselves.

No meme online is going to fix our generational trauma.  

We've done enough trauma work.

All of us know that we're mad at parents, and we'll keep projecting that on our children.

What we've never actually had are the tools to know what it is to regulate our nervous system and be the mother that we choose to be.

Especially, because every child is different.

You need to figure out what’s right for your child, for you, and for your family.

Because right now, chances are you're parenting from how you've been parented or avoiding how you've been parented. And it's not working.

You're either really being overly accommodating with your kids, and then having nothing left for yourself, or you're constantly consumed by guilt, shame, fear, failure, and comparing.

You're constantly thinking that you're not enough.

This isn't what you wanted it to be.

You're burnt out and exhausted. And it's reflected in your mothering.

All your child desperately wants is to know that you really love them.

And I know you feel like you're letting them down, and I know you love them.

But what's worse at this moment, is that you don't have the tools to get out of this, and you're letting yourself down.

Inadvertently, you're becoming the person you didn't want to be, and you know something has to change.

That's why healing as a parent is the best gift you can give your children.

Because this is it.

Everyone who has worked with me said it changed who they were as a mother, father and a family.

They know they have healed generational patterns and broken the cycle.
Their children feel loved. 

There's intellectually understanding conscious parenting, and then there's actually being able to do it.

Most of us are not doing it.

Let's be honest we're doing it from a place of not-enoughness, or that there's something wrong with us, or that we're broken…. Or we're always focusing on our failures and where we're falling short.

We cannot consciously parent if we're parenting from our trauma.

And there is another way.

I truly believe that your child chose you, it wasn't a mistake.

And I know that you know that.

And I know that this matters to you more than anything in the world, to break that cycle.

I want you to be able to feel the love for your child.

And I want you to be able to feel the love from your child. There's healing here.

And I want that for you.

We both know your parents loved you, but you never felt truly loved by them.

And you're still working through that. That's what's showing up here in your parenting. And we don't want that for you, or for your kids.

Motherhood is an initiation, it's a Spiritual practice.

It is the pathway for your most incredible transformation to be the best version of you.

For every parent who wants to be the best parent they can be, to heal generational patterns, to break the cycles, and to love your child in the way they deserve to be loved - I can help.

And in the process, you'll learn to love who you are.

If you're ready to heal from your debilitating guilt, and the fear of failure, and really understand what it means to have compassion for yourself on this journey, I can help.

The best gift you can give your child - is your healing.

Sending love,
Yummii

PS Watch this free training - and if it resonates, reach out. 

My process isn't for everyone. And I know it works. It's the healing work you would have wanted your parents to do.