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Exploring Motherhood with Consciousness, Mindfulness, and an abundance of Compassion.

How important is trust in a relationship?

Uncategorized Jun 17, 2022

I know what it's like when you're in a relationship and you don't feel like they've got your back - and you're walking on eggshells or on edge; hyper-vigilant that something is going to go wrong or you're just always on auto-pilot needing to be in control of everyone and everything.

It's exhausting. It's painful. You can't relax in Life.

It's so unconscious - you don't trust them...

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Do you find it hard to trust?

Uncategorized Jun 15, 2022

I had a deep loathing for being female. I wanted to be a boy.

I would feel SO proud when someone called me a Tom Boy.

I wanted to be strong and powerful and I associated this with only being available to you if you're a boy.

I had this "belief" system centred around boys don't get hurt, life is much safer if you don't have emotions, and boys get what they want in life.

And, if you're a...

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The Higher Self...

Uncategorized Jun 08, 2022

"I'm always with you - I've always been here."

That's what my Higher-Self shared.

It was only a few years ago that I thought I could only access my Higher-Self based on those that had the "gift" to channel or pass on messages.

I thought the Higher Self was something I could only connect to in meditation.

I thought my Higher-Self was outside of me.. and even if I read about it, and...

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The hard things about hard things..

Uncategorized Jun 07, 2022

The hard thing about parenting isn't patience... the hard thing is believing that patience is the choice to make, and it feels safe to be patient.

The hard thing about parenting isn't needing to be everything to everyone and doing it all - the hard thing is letting go of that and realising how unhealthy and dysfunctional it is to continue to play it out.

The hard thing about parenting...

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How to be a conscious parent

Uncategorized Jun 02, 2022

Some of the biggest fears we have as parents are; "Am I doing it right?!... Am I enough? Am I giving them everything they need?"

And if we're not focused on ourselves and how we're doing, we're then focused on "They don't appreciate me", "they are so ungrateful", "I'm just a maid/ chauffeur and being bossed around". 

As you read the above - what do you notice?

We are so obsessed with...

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It doesn't feel safe to be you...

Uncategorized Jun 01, 2022

On a scale of 1-10, how seen, heard, and understood did you feel as a child?

This question could be one of the most important questions you'll answer.

It reveals your baseline of "belonging" in this world.

One of the hardest things that a child faces is the experience of feeling invisible and misunderstood.

If our parents and caretakers were in survival mode when we were growing up, or if they...

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What's your magic wand wish?

Uncategorized May 28, 2022

What's your magic wand wish?

What do you lay in bed at night thinking about when it comes to your parenting/ relationships?

What keeps you up at night?

Let me know. 

xx

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A personal story....

Uncategorized May 20, 2022

It's been a year and a half since I've spoken to my dad or heard from him.

Both my parents disowned me back in December 2021.

My mom has reached out recently and we're with rebuilding our relationship. And I must say it's been the best that it's ever been.

Not because I changed - because she could finally accept me as I am. I no longer had to abandon or reject myself to "belong".

It's...

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How to be more present and patient

Uncategorized May 18, 2022

Isn't that the ultimate thing we all want to know as parents?

And if we're not parents, how can we do this for our partners/ spouse?

If you've been following me for a while, you already know the answer to this.

Or you have been following for a while, and even though I've given you the answer, it's "Yummii - I'm willing to do anything BUT that....". ;) 

So what is it? How can we be more...

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Do you believe in compromise?

Uncategorized May 12, 2022

And what does it cost you?

“If we’ve been living a very compromised life, we may feel that we’re trapped. But we’re never trapped. If we begin right now to make small decisions and actions that don’t compromise our sense of inner integrity, then even one uncompromising act a day will make a difference. The more we learn not to compromise, the more we’ll begin...

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